Gratitude

When the world seems to have gone crazy and life feels anxious and sad, it is difficult to feel thankful. As the old hymn goes, “Showers of blessing, Showers of blessing we need; Mercy-drops round us are falling, but for the showers we plead.” However, if we put a bit of thought into it, we will discover we are wading in the blessings we already have.

After my husband passed away, I started to keep a gratitude journal so that sorrow would not carry me away. I still write in it every night before I go to bed. No matter where I am or what is going on in my world, I write in the journal so that I can recognize my blessings. My gratitude journal even went with me on the Wesley Chapel trip to Israel in 2021. There are times when I struggle to find things to be grateful for, but I ALWAYS find something. I try to remember what Jesus said about difficult times, “In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)

1 Thessalonians 5:12-15 gives us guidance on how to find our blessings and how to be a blessing to others. It says we need to appreciate the people around us who work to care for us spiritually or emotionally or physically or in multiple ways. The scripture instructs us to be a blessing to others by living in peace with one another, encouraging the disheartened, helping the weak and being patient with everyone.

I believe that verses 16, 17, and 18 of 1 Thessalonians 5, carry a powerful punch and can be difficult to do at times. “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” There are times that rejoicing is hard, but in those times find even the smallest blessing in which to be grateful. Sometimes we forget to pray, trying to take care of the situation on our own. God wants to support us, so have a discussion with Him. Even in the rough times, there is reason to give thanks to God. The Great I Am wants a relationship with us in good times and bad.

Here are a few thoughts on how to be focused on being thankful all year long. Even if you do not keep a written journal, keep a tally of your blessings every day. Maybe during your prayer time each day, list what you are thankful for and thank God for each item on the list. You will find your list gets longer and longer as you contemplate your blessings. Take time to tell the people around you why you are grateful for them, even if they are on your last nerve. If someone’s behaviors, attitudes or mental health are wearing on your patience, be aware that they probably need your support rather than criticism. Find something to love about everyone you meet, God does. It is not for us to judge for Jesus has directed us to love one another as he has loved us.

This Thanksgiving enjoy wading through the showers of blessings, but appreciate the mercy-drops, as well.